As humans we have esteem needs, or the strive to gain approval and recognition.

Sadly none of us are perfect but that doesn't stop us from trying to be, and wanting everyone to notice along the way. With the clothes we wear, the friends we have, the car we drive, the goals we set ourselves and even how much money we have.

It all comes down to the fact that we want to be recognised. Well, I have to admit I am guilty at times of this. How about you?

Just imagine how good the feeling would be if you are being recognised not just by the people close to you, but even others you don’t personally know. You might feel unique, proud, happy, special and maybe even loved. Who doesn’t want this kind of attention, that can bring all these feelings?

The thing is, what you are being recognised for? Is it for the material things the clothes, car, how much money you have?

Or are there other areas to be recognised that may bring even more of those feelings? Like;

1) Being confident. 

2) Standing up for yourself. 

3) Reaching out to others. 

4) Learning to love and be loved back. 

5) Respecting others as much as you respect yourself. 

6) Loving your work. 

7) Doing your best in every task you engage in. 

8) Being thankful for everything. 

I think it would be fair to say that most of us want to look and feel good, but people notice and recognise those that are being real, humane and grounded also.

You can be someone who can reach the sky with your feet on the ground. 

What are you being recognised for?

Would love to hear your thoughts and comments below.